Wednesday, June 6, 2007

What is Love?

Millions of people are always saying, “I love you.” What is love? It is hard to explain it. Some think that love is warm feelings between human to human including husband, wife, children, friends, and lovers. Not only is there love for others but also love for nature, love for learning, love for respect, and many more. However, all of us have a completely different definition of love.No one knows how to exactly define what love is and what it means to them but individuals do love at least something.

Love provides two souls with the ability to grow together as one. Love is a precious gift that we get from life. For once, our hearts will suddenly beat in a different way because of that special someone. Furthermore, most lovers have the same emotion about sadness and happiness even though there are differences in their life styles. For example, when a sad thing comes, the two partners would feel bad at the same time. If one is hurt, then the other might hurt as well. They could die or fight for their love. Otherwise, they would smile together in the feeling of joy. Could we be able to do the same thing? If we do, then that’s what calls love. Love starts from a smile, a kiss, and an embrace.

Love is caring and sharing. To love means to concern and share one’s life, feelings, and honesty with others. Sharing is not an easy thing to do, but it is the key to a successful relationship. A life without love is incomplete. To keep love growing, we should spend more time with a loved one to solve any problems. Once, I gave advice to my friend when she failed a math test. The ability to care and share life’s experiences, such as the common goals, thoughts, and interests, are the great showing of love.

To love is to believe in impossibilities. In fact, love would change something from improbable to probable, wrong to right, and likely to unlikely. When a person falls in love, they trust in anything their lover says, no matter what it is, such as lies.

Love may have thousands of wonderful things and inside those things, there is love. Nevertheless, there are some people who fantasize love as trust, protection, and hope. Love is the romantic moments that everyone wishes to have at least one time. It’s the combination of any strong feelings, best memories, or blissful moments. Perhaps the descriptions of love came from each individuals' thoughts. True love will never become hatefulness even when two lovers are broken up.

Forgiving is a very important aspect of love. If one knows how to offer forgiveness to someone, then they may get others to love them back. People need to realize that we should forgive others whenever we can. Not everyone is going to make a mistake or fault all the time. Although there is actually something that can’t be forgiven but however, try to be kind. Otherwise, we couldn’t have a stronger relationship if we tried to keep thinking about what had happened in the past.

Love is what we call splendid and miraculous. It seems that love is the possession of magnanimous souls or states of mind. Love gives us strength and helps us get through the hard times. Even so, we must understand that building love takes lots of time from a friend to a buddy and end up as a lover. Willing to sacrifice is a way to obtain love, which is all around us.

We should bring love to people who revive love in us, who feel privation in soul, and who care for their loved one. Therefore love doesn’t follow any pattern. It can’t have only one definition because everybody experiences love differently. Most of all, we will never know the true meaning of love if we aren’t in love with someone for once. No matter how I try to explain it, “There is only one happiness in life, to love and to be loved.”(Unknown)

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